never forget the influence you have.

every child should be told these words.

the littlest things matter.

ill be seeing you soon...

the last trip before winter hits...

off to visit the best friend in Vancouver.

pretty damn excited.

gentlemen, this never changes...

girls eventually grow into women.

this will always remain the way into our hearts.
even when we don't express wanting it.

things i shouldnt do.

i really need to stop trying to drink the boys under the table.

but last night was stellar :)

just be real.

Seriously, since when did people have the right to tell me I need to re-evaluate my relationship style?
No, people never seemed to get the dynamics of 'spoons' and i's relationship.
And yes, we did fall apart but my outlook of relationships will never change..

I would much rather support a man from a far, than tie him down out of a need for convenience for myself.
I want the man Im with to absolutely love what he does, to achieve his dreams and be truly happy in his life.
I dont believe in clipping wings, because of a relationship title or a wedding band.
How does one stay truly happy in a situation, if they dont feel truly supported?

I will never compromise my priorities, goals or my being for anyone.
So how I can justify asking someone else to...
I don't believe in settling in life. in any form.

Open, Honest and Faithful is all that is required.
Be Driven. Build an empire, travel the world or coach a kids baseball team. I have a lot of goals/dreams and I want you to have to have them to.
Be Independent.  On your free weekend, go quadding with the boys. Just call me on your way home, to ask how my day was.
Be Supportive. Hug me when I need it.

That's it.

People are odd in how they perceive. how they go about things. how they think people and relationships should be. the advice some people give. the games some people play. the insecurities people go great lengths to hide. people just need to get over the fear of failing. fear of losing. fear of letting someone in. people need to let go of control. people make it soo much harder than it has to be.

relationships dont need a mile long list of rules and expectations.
if it matters enough to both parties, it will just work.
if not, you move on.

plain and simple.

this girl doesnt settle.

 I will never settle.

I know what I want.

driven.

passionate.

self-assured.

althetic.

geeky.

honest.

loving.

supportive.

independent.

my husband will essentially be me, in boy form.

 

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